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Many people who are new to the swingers scene have a whole host of questions regarding swinging and even some of us who have been involved for some time need to ask for advice or information.

One of the most refreshing and liberating factors about swinging is that most of the people who are involved aren't afraid or embarrassed about discussing a wide range of sexual topics and for the vast majority of swingers this openness has a huge appeal.

Our swingers articles are here to inform and be a starting point to those who are seeking information about swinging. We thought we would begin with offering some helpful hints.

Be honest as to whether you are straight or bi-sexual. Don't claim to be something your not as it undermines trust.
Be confident in who you are. Everyone has attractive qualities and Sensual Swingers have different tastes. You don't have to be an exhibitionist to show off qualities.
Do not expect swinging to be a cure for a failing relationship. Although in some cases this may work it’s not guaranteed.
Respect other people’s wishes. Swinging is about all parties being comfortable with the situation.
Accept that ‘no’ means just that.......No! Don’t ask ‘why not?’
Don’t be pushy. Allow people to decide what they want in their own time.
Talk about your experiences while they are fresh in your mind. If you have any worries talk about them. This will help you understand and make you more relaxed about things.
Key social traits that tend to be appreciated in the swinging community are responsibility, friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness.
Agree a set of signals or codes with your partner. These can be useful when a situation arises where words may become embarrassing.
Hygiene is vital in swinging. Ensure you have showered and are clean before starting any fun.
Don’t get too drunk. This can impair both judgement and performance.
As a couple you must both want to swing. Discuss it openly and honestly at length before you take the plunge.

Remember......Sensual Swinging is about enjoyment for everyone and everyone has a part to play in ensuring everyone enjoys it.