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Gay. It used to be a word for being happy, then it was a dirty word, now it’s a word for being happy and open about sexuality. How times change. Go back 30 years and most of us didn’t know a single gay man whether personally or in the media and now….

So many public figures have come out into the open. Gay parades give a platform for the once repressed to come out and celebrate their sexuality. The arrival on the public stage of gay men seems to coincide with the rise of bi-sexual men as people begin to question their own desires.

We at sensual swingers understand. We also want to push things forward. If you’re sat reading this article and wondering about your own sexuality we have a wealth of articles and information for you to read and hopefully get somewhere close to where you want to be.

One of the first things someone may wonder is about sexual positions used by gay men. Is it all anal sex? Is it all oral sex? Is it just mutual masturbation? Read on and be enlightened.

Masturbation :- This is the first point of seriously intimate contact for most gay men so it would pay to get it right and ensure your first experience is one you’ll enjoy. Not everyone likes to be masturbated in the same way. Some like it rough, some like it soft, some like it fast and some slow. The key is to observe the reaction of the man you’re wanking. Look for the tell tale signs of whether he is enjoying it or not. If he has a pained expression the chances are that it’s hurting. Don’t stop dead. Change the technique and watch him. Plenty of lubrication can eliminate any possibility of friction and also gets you ready for penetrative sex if that’s your aim.

Oral :- One of the best techniques for anyone is to open the throat. This will reduce the gag factor. Lie on your back and tilt your head back with your partner stood behind you. Tilting the head gives a clear airway just as it does in Exhaled Air Resuscitation (EAR) or mouth to mouth. Watch sword swallowers at the circus. They always tilt their head.

Entry :- The first thing you need to know is that it does not have to hurt. Plenty of lubrication such as KY and a gentle working of the anus with fingers can help. The ‘bottom’ is the receiver and the ‘top’ is the giver. At the point of entering push out slightly then relax as the member passes the sphincter (the ring of muscle controlling things leaving and entering the colon).
This will draw him into you and remember…take your time, nice and slow to start with.

Doggy Style :- The bottom is the one in control here. Their actions dictate the pace because their comfort and safety is paramount. If they push back they want you deeper. If they lean forward, you’re too deep. They can speed things up or slow things down but they should always be in control.

Missionary :- At first a lot of patience will be needed by both top and bottom to get into the right position. Once there it is the bottom that can try out various techniques by using his legs. Raising them higher can assist penetration as lowering them can reduce the depth of stroke.

Seated :- Again the bottom has the control. He can lower himself as far down as is comfortable and dictate the pace.

Cowboy :- The bottom sits astride the top and lowers himself onto him. The bottom can lean forward and be submissive allowing the top to take control or the bottom can lean back and dictate the pace. The benefit with this is that the top can masturbate the bottom as he leans back exposing his penis. The tilt of the pelvis will also guide the shaft of the penis directly to the prostate heightening the sensation.

So there you have an insight into gay sex. This is your site and if you want to share your experiences with the rest of our members contact us and we’ll publish your thoughts and comments. It’s important for everyone to know that being gay is something to be proud of and not ashamed of. It is our intention to integrate everyone into the world of swingers and for everyone to share the site. With over  5000 Gay Men already on our lists we believe we are doing something right...Why not join them FREE today? 

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